We all are suckers for love! The prominent idea of love is a beautiful thing. You meet someone and after a while your feelings start to change and your love matures into something that you least expected. That’s usually how love goes right? What happens when you just need to spice things up? Your relationship starts to go through this awkward phase. Maybe you are noticing that you are starting to argue more? Is your everyday routine becoming boring? Well, if you find that these things are happening in your relationship remember it doesn’t mean that it’s taking a turn for the worst. You may just need to bring the spark back into your relationship. I have some tips that will help your revive your relationship. These tips may take you all the way back to the beginning of your relationship when things were fun, fresh, and new. Read on to see what advice and tips I have to offer.

Tip 1: Be Spontaneous– Dare to be different! That’s probably why your partner fell in love with you in the first place. Try to do something your partner would least expect. Plan a random trip, or book a hotel stay for the night. Being spontaneous not only helps your relationship, but it makes your partner excited to spend time with you. Giving someone something to look forward to helps their attention remain focused on you because they have no idea what you may do next.

Tip 2: Get Involved In Your Partners Life– Okay so maybe you are not really into the same interest as your significant other. So what! Just try to find at least one way to be involved. If they love music sign them up for a class and join them. If they are into cooking take a couples cooking class. The whole idea is for your partner to see that you are putting forth the effort to be consistent and involved in their life. Showing support in your partners interest lets your partner know that you care about what matters to them.

Tip 3: Don’t Forget The Simple Things Matter– Everyone loves to fill appreciated. Leave a note inside of your partners car or lunch box. Let them know just how much you appreciate them. If you are feeling naughty write them something that they will be able to look forward to once they get home from a long day.

Tip 4: Sex Is Not A Chore It’s Pleasurable Bonding Time– It’s amusing to me how many couples have said they don’t have time for a sex life. No wonder why the spark is gone. Sex should not be the most important thing in your relationship, however it should not be last on your list. Intimacy is just as important as communication. Letting your partner know that you are still attracted to them sexually can only heighten your relationship. Ladies try getting a new lingerie set and setting up the whole mood. Get your candles, take a nice shower, lather yourself in a new scented lotion, and put on your lingerie and surprise your man. I am sure he will thank you for it.

I hope these four tips will help you add some spice to your relationship and stop doing the same old boring routine. The most important tip that I did not mention is make sure that you are communicating with your partner. In order to keep the candle lit in your relationship effective communication must take place, so when things do get weird both of you can talk about it and make some changes. Let me know in the comments how you spice up your relationship. I would love to know some of your tips!

Until Next Time,

“Stay Clutch”

Lala Walston